You know the theory: if you want something really badly, make other plans and it will appear. It’s like when you want the children to do A, but they refuse and do B. Ignore them, and work on A all by yourself, they will hustle right over (whitewashing a fence comes to mind). So if you want to get pregnant, find that perfect job. If you want to move, fall in love in situ. Never fails. Okay, once it failed. I made other plans in January and it’s April and nothing has happened.
Don’t listen to me.